Anything above baseline blocking, protection against fingerprinting, etc., is optional and must remain so or our core users would bolt. So please feel welcome to use in default mode.
BTW, chromium bloat rep in part comes from Chrome not blocking ads and tracking well. Extensions must use JS and so use more memory. Brave uses C++ in the network threads of the browser process.
My browser is for reading docs, for JS/WASM development, and the occasional Gmail or HN visit, so maybe I'm not their target market.