That per exchange context cost is what really puts me off using cloud LLM for anything serious. I know batching and everything is needed in the data center, and important for keeping around KVQ cache, you basically need to fully take over machine to get an interactive session to get the context costs to scale with sequence length. So it's useful, but more in the case of a local LLaMA type situation if you want a conversation.
I wonder if we could implement the equivalent of a JIT compilation, whereby context sequences which get repeatedly reused would be used for an online fine-tuning.