I suspect there is more to this than meets the eye.
I have had a Gmail email account since they were invite only back in the day and I run my company email system and by my company I mean my (ie MD) so I'm quite keen on it working.
I recently migrated the whole shebang to MS365 from Exchange on prem. I have kept our MX records pointing to our on prem SMTP daemon (Exim). That means that I can redirect mail to mailboxes as I wish - I am not beholden to MS. Several addresses end up being delivered to an on prem imapd (Dovecot).
Anyway, I did set up DKIM when it was invented and then DMARC and then I ditched them because it messed up with mail lists. That has all been sorted but I still don't have DKIM on my company domain.
I have never setup DKIM on my personal vanity domain collection. The only recent fix I had to carry out was to fix up reverse DNS (PTR record) for an SMTP/MX address. That is proper old school and only one recipient domain even noticed and dropped mail.
The bounce message you received may have said DKIM but it may have been lying or simply that was the last thing that went wrong or whatever.
The big email systems are run by reasonable people who do not discriminate against well run tiddly email systems. They will absolutely crap on spammers inbound (despite hosting them) and IP reputation is king. There are a lot more rules too and it is rare that any transgression is final - pretty much all systems are score based rather than absolute on one failure.
I have had a Gmail email account since they were invite only back in the day and I run my company email system and by my company I mean my (ie MD) so I'm quite keen on it working.
I recently migrated the whole shebang to MS365 from Exchange on prem. I have kept our MX records pointing to our on prem SMTP daemon (Exim). That means that I can redirect mail to mailboxes as I wish - I am not beholden to MS. Several addresses end up being delivered to an on prem imapd (Dovecot).
Anyway, I did set up DKIM when it was invented and then DMARC and then I ditched them because it messed up with mail lists. That has all been sorted but I still don't have DKIM on my company domain.
I have never setup DKIM on my personal vanity domain collection. The only recent fix I had to carry out was to fix up reverse DNS (PTR record) for an SMTP/MX address. That is proper old school and only one recipient domain even noticed and dropped mail.
The bounce message you received may have said DKIM but it may have been lying or simply that was the last thing that went wrong or whatever.
The big email systems are run by reasonable people who do not discriminate against well run tiddly email systems. They will absolutely crap on spammers inbound (despite hosting them) and IP reputation is king. There are a lot more rules too and it is rare that any transgression is final - pretty much all systems are score based rather than absolute on one failure.