I'm not interested in guessing what your opinion is, I'm hoping you'll share it. I don't think you'll be unfairly judged; of course if you are actually being racist then it's not unfair for anyone to call that out. I don't feel like 'society' has decided not to talk about certain things to avoid name calling; I've personally only heard that kind of phrase coming from someone who holds a racist opinion but doesn't like the label, but I'm always opening to broadening my mind. Enlighten me!
I think we are at the point where we both know which groups are meant. I assume that you live in the USA, which has strong free speech and privacy laws, so you don't need to worry. The rest of us are not that lucky, so the best we can get away with is hinting and hoping no one takes close attention.
I already explained why I don't want to say it aloud in this context. Your guess is as good as anyone's.
> ... as a society, we have decided not to talk about it so we are not called racists or far right.